Minutes 8/26/2018

8/26/2018 minutes
Takoma Park Friends Meeting-Preparative gathered on 8/26/2018 at the Dance Exchange in Takoma Park, Maryland. We decided, given the small number in attendance, to postpone the business meeting to September 9.
We adjourned, to gather next on 9/9/2018 at the rise of meeting, or at the call of the presiding clerk.

Arthur David Olson, presiding
Victor Thuronyi, recording

6/24/2018 minutes

Takoma Park Friends Meeting-Preparative gathered on 6/24/2018 at the Dance Exchange in Takoma Park, Maryland. We heard queries and advices from the 2013 draft Baltimore Yearly Meeting Faith and Practice on equality. We heard appreciation for the meeting’s gifts to Parents of Special Needs Adults. We heard of the tension between being competitive and compromising. We heard regret for society’s focus on the rich and famous, with the good works of the poor covered as an afterthought. We heard of the social value of taking part in continuing education, which provides an opportunity for people of different backgrounds to mix. We heard of how racial equity is an enormous issue, and of the danger of trying to deal with it with small responses. We heard of how speaking in positive terms of those who are different applies to those who simply have opinions different from our own, especially when those others may have poor opinions of us. We heard of how stands that we disagree with may be understandable when we learn the reasons for them.

6/3/2018 minutes

Takoma Park Friends Meeting-Preparative gathered on 6/3/2018 at the Dance Exchange in Takoma Park, Maryland, having rescheduled our planned 5/27/2018 meeting. We heard queries and advices from the 2013 draft Baltimore Yearly Meeting Faith and Practice on education. We heard of how holding a degree can confer status and of how lacking a degree can lead to a sense of lack of status. We heard a concern about lack of Quaker focus on public schools, recognizing that that’s a big piece of cheese. We heard of interest in and participation in board of education elections as ways to promote education. We heard of the clash of the idea of continuing revelation with the idea that “you can’t teach an old dog new tricks;” we get to overcome the second idea when promoting the first. We heard of how religious education can come from practice, and that study may be inadequate. We heard a concern that our meeting does not spend enough time learning about other faiths and beliefs. We heard of the use of different translations of the Bible by different Christian denominations; variety of belief occurs both among and within faiths. We heard of how learning about other faiths can help us find common ground with and understanding of people of those faiths.

4/22/2018 minutes

Takoma Park Friends Meeting-Preparative gathered on 4/22/2018 at the Dance Exchange in Takoma Park, Maryland. We heard queries and advices from the 2013 draft Baltimore Yearly Meeting Faith and Practice on diversity. We heard of a dream involving irritation at sending someone to a dangerous part of town, followed, on waking, by irritation that the dangerous part of town in the dream was Black—a deeply rooted bias. We heard of a remark by a person of color to someone being chosen last for a sports team: “Now you know how I feel.” We heard of how it can be as uncomfortable to be wanted in a group because of your race as it is to not be wanted in a group because of your race, and of how being asked to speak for a group is impossible when they don’t all want the same thing. We heard of a practice of using “all-age” rather than “intergenerational;” we can help build diversity by communicating in ways others can understand. We heard of how use of the term “people of color” may be inaccurate and divisive. We heard of how people with brain injuries and others with special needs also face prejudice and abandonment.

Presiding Clerk and Quaker Discussion Coordinator Nominations

Yesterday I announced that I will be resigning from my positions as presiding clerk and Quaker discussion coordinator, effective June 24th (June Worshipful Business Meeting). We need nominations for people to fill these positions. We will be using our Quaker discussion on May 20th to discuss the nominations. If you have any nominations, please contact the current Quaker discussion coordinator (me, presiding_clerk at takomaparkfriends dot org).

Please note that the Quaker discussion coordinator position is more than just running the adult education discussions. Since we laid down the M&O committee, all of our committee work is done on an ad hoc basis in Quaker discussion. So this position is additionally the clerk-of-all-committees. Of course, this is not set in stone. If changing the way we handled committee work would better fit the skills of people willing to work for the meeting, it is more important to get the work done than to do it the way we’ve been doing it.

-Craig O’Brien

Worshipful Business Meeting Agenda, 4/22

The agenda for worshipful business meeting on Sunday, April 22nd is as follows:

  • Treasurer’s report
  • Review of request to Adelphi
  • Review of proposed survey
  • Clerk nomination
  • Quaker discussion leader nomination

    If there are any other items that should be on the agenda, please contact the presiding clerk by responding here or emailing presiding_clerk at takomaparkfriends dot org.